Being Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable

By Rich Bluni, RN, Studer Group International Speaker; Author of Inspired Nurse and Inspired Journal

It’s not fun being uncomfortable. Sometimes it’s, well…uncomfortable. But what you cannot deny is that, in life, there is no progress, success, or achievement without some level of discomfort. You want to get into shape? You’re going to be sore. (Uncomfortable!) You want to succeed in your work? You’re going to have to get there early and stay late sometimes. (Uncomfortable!) You want to be the best friend/spouse/parent/nurse/physician/RT/PT/leader/astronaut/pastry chef/underwater demolition expert? You will have to have difficult conversations, take challenging classes, and give up selfish pursuits to achieve those goals. (Uncomfortable!) To be honest and transparent, this is something I personally struggle with and work at every day. But I’m learning that being comfortable with being uncomfortable is necessary to grow.

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Nine Management Practices to Create Trust

Here are some outstanding reminders about trust-building int he workplace from the folks at Great Place to Work:

INSPIRING – Employees learn and understand how their job has meaning for the organization and for society, beyond earning a salary and making a profit for the business.

SPEAKING – Management goes to great lengths to be open and transparent, offering access to information across the board, enabling and encouraging employees to contribute beyond the scope of a narrowly defined job.

LISTENING – Special open systems for incorporating peoples’ ideas, for including people in decision-making, and for airing concerns and grievances, are prevalent.

THANKING – Recognizes and rewards good work and extra levels of effort; strives to create a climate of approval.

DEVELOPING – Focus is on nurturing individuals’ gifts to foster personal growth and development as well as offering job-specific training.

CARING – A multiplicity of systems and programs are in place for creating a caring environment for the individual and his/her family. Includes diversity programs, work/life balance, and support in times of need.

HIRING – Focus is on hiring for potential and character of the person, rather than primarily on skill set. New employees are welcomed and assimilated into the team with orientation programs, personal sponsorships, and the like.

CELEBRATING – Celebrations of both personal milestones and company successes are built into the way people work together.

SHARING – Employees share in the fruits of their labor in a variety of ways; rewards are egalitarian in nature. Includes giving back to the community.

Top Six Value-Adds from the Home Office

What do the Wilshire agencies value most about the Home Office’s (corporate team) contribution? After a series of interviews and surveys with Wilshire team members across Agencies and service locations, here are the top six ranked items in order of priority (from most important, to least important):

 

  1. Timely Response/Follow-Through to Requests for Information
  2. Reliable Technical Expertise for Problem-Solving
  3. Accountability Support for Key Objectives & Priorities
  4. Resources for Individual, Team and Organizational Improvement
  5. Consistent Process, Protocol & Administration
  6. Guidance & Direction Regarding Priorities/Strategies for Growth

 

Stay tuned for more updates as the self-assessment process continues!

 

Am I Doing Great Work?

Great work holds meaning and inspiration for us personally, and it matters to our organization. Unfortunately sometimes our days get filled up with mediocre or bad work that distracts us from the things we can best contribute.

Here’s a quick 5-minute exercise that you can do to see if you are delivering the great work that only you can contribute:

1. Draw a large square on a piece of paper, and then add lines across to make four quadrants.

2. On the horizontal access write “Things I care about” and on the vertical access write “Things they care about.”

3. In the bottom left quadrant, write “low” and in the bottom right and top left quadrants write “high.”

(See the image to the right for an example.)

Now that you have your 2×2 matrix, think about how you have spent your time over the last week or so and write down 10 tasks/projects that you have worked on. As you think of them, place them in the quadrant that corresponds to how much you and the organization (your boss) care about them. Once you are done, think about these questions:

  • In which of these quadrants do the majority of my tasks/projects sit?
  • What does this say about the organization’s priorities?
  • What does this say about my priorities?
  • Am I doing the things that I really care about?

Now that you have done this and given it some thought, sit with these questions and turn them into action steps:

  • How can I get more tasks/responsibilities into the top-right box?
  • How can I quickly stop doing things in the bottom-left box
  • How can I delegate the stuff in the top-left box?

New Model of RESPECT

Paul Marciano is an organization development expert that works with a variety of companies across many industries. Among other things, he is on the leading edge with research regarding sustained employee engagement. This post features some information about his RESPECT Model, which is really quick and to the point:

The RESPECT Model is an actionable philosophy supported by more than a century of research on employee motivation and performance. It is not a program. Rather, it is an approach to leadership and corporate governance that appeals to and affects employees’ beliefs, values and sense of worth.

The Model is rooted in the premise that human relationships – both personal and professional – only “work” within the context of respect. Employee engagement depends upon the extent to which individuals:

  • Respect their organization – its Mission, Vision, values, goals, policies and actions. Employees are proud to say, “I work for this company.”
  • Respect the organization’s leaders, especially their direct supervisor – believing that he/she is competent, ethical, makes good decisions and treats people fairly.
  • Respect their team members – believing that they are competent, cooperative, honest, supportive and willing to pull their own weight.
  • Respect their work – finding it challenging, rewarding, interesting and as having value to both internal and external customers.
  • Feel respected by the organization, supervisor and fellow team members

Critical Drivers

The RESPECT Model identifies seven critical drivers that influence employees’ internal assessment of respect and subsequent engagement:

Recognition: Employees feel acknowledged and appreciated for their contributions. Supervisors regularly recognize deserving team members and people are rewarded based on their work performance.

Empowerment: Supervisors provide employees with the tools, resources and training to succeed. Employees experience high levels of autonomy and are encouraged to take risks. Supervisors take the initiative to communicate with employees and ensure that they are equipped to succeed not fail.

Supportive Feedback: Supervisors provide employees with timely, specific feedback in a supportive, sincere and constructive manner. Feedback is delivered for the purpose of reinforcement and improvement – never to embarrass or punish.

Partnering: Team members and management collaborate to achieve common goals. Employees view supervisors as advocates for their development and growth. Team members and departments actively communicate and share information with one another.

Expectations: Supervisors ensure that goals, objectives and business priorities are clearly established and communicated. Employees know precisely the standards by which their performance is evaluated and are held accountable for meeting their performance expectations.

Consideration: Supervisors, managers and team members demonstrate consideration, caring and thoughtfulness toward one another. Supervisors actively seek to understand employees’ opinions and concerns and are understanding and supportive when employees experience personal problems.

Trust: Supervisors demonstrate trust and confidence in employees’ skills and abilities. Employees trust that their supervisor will “do right” by them. Leaders keep their promises and commitments, and, thus, are trusted by employees.

To learn more, Paul’s website can be found at: http://www.paulmarciano.com

Hospice Work Featured in the Harvard Business Review

What we do really matters! Recent validation of how relevant and crucial our Hospice services are came in the form of Harvard Business Review’s 2012 annual “List of Audacious Ideas,” which included Ellen Goodman and Susan Block talking about death/dying (Conversation Project) among its ideas that might change the world and business.

Here is an excerpt from Susan Block’s related blog piece, with links to more below:

No one wants to think about the stuff I do — death, suffering, pain, heartache, grief, sorrow. Individual reluctance is mirrored in the health care system’s belief that more care and technology can stave off death, and that what we don’t talk about won’t happen. And often that strategy works. But it always fails eventually, and when that occurs, our system, by and large, does a lousy job.

Others write about the uncertainty over whether and when someone will die (it’s real), the way financial incentives drive overtreatment (they do), and the lack of coordination of care for complex, seriously ill patients (absolutely true). What intrigues me is how our fundamental humanity undermines our ability to do our best for our patients.

Doctors, like most of us, are scared of dying, and prefer to think that everything can be fixed. This leads, I believe, to a misguided collusion of optimism between physicians and patients. It is no fun to talk with patients about their death. It is painful and makes them and us upset. Patients feel scared and sad and distressed; we feel guilty and disappointed in ourselves and our profession for not being able to do better. In order to help patients face these difficult realities, we have to overcome our wish to avoid this kind of distress — the patients’ and our own. We need a medical culture that is more open and direct about the end of life. Achieving this will be a huge stretch. But I believe there are some system changes that will help allow us to begin to overcome barriers to this culture change.

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Here is the link to pod cast with featured Hospice contributor (starting around minute 7): http://blogs.hbr.org/ideacast/2011/12/hbrs-2012-list-of-audacious-id.html

Here is a link to a three-part blob series also about the topic: http://blogs.hbr.org/innovations-in-health-care/2011/03/-the-stuff-i-do.html

Tribal Leadership

Maybe you got a new pair of shoes for the holidays…it might have come from Zappos.com. They are a cool company for sure, with some real innovative workplace culture trends. One of the books that their team members read is Tribal Leadership by David Logan, John King and Halee Fischer-Wright. You can download a free audio copy of the book here if you want to check it out: Free Book.

Here is a bit about the concept of Tribal Leadership from the authors…

Most strategies and plans fail when rolled out to the organization because culture eats strategy for breakfast. Our 10-year study with 24,000 people identifies how naturally occurring tribes in every organization make up its culture. Tribal Leadership shows leaders how to improve their culture and achieve the following:

  • Teams collaborate and work towards a noble cause, propelled by their values.
  • Reduce fear and stress levels as the “interpersonal friction” of working together decreases.
  • The entire tribe shifts from resisting leadership to seeking it out.
  • The organization becomes a magnet for top talent.
  • Employees’ engagement to work increases, and they go from “quit on the job but still on the payroll” to fully participating.
  • Organizational learning becomes effortless, as the tribe actively teaches its members the best thinking & practices.
  • Individuals feel more alive and have more fun.

Discover Your Core Values…Then Let Them Guide You

Anytime is a good time to check-in with the quiet, but powerful forces that guide our attitudes, choices, and behaviors. It is easy to start the process of clarifying values, and it pays off in the form of increasing trust/integrity with others.Values Clarification_Quickstart Guide

Development FIRST

As we get closer to the end of one year and the start of the next, it is natural to begin thinking about new resolutions. When it comes to goals for our own personal and professional development, we can often get distracted from them because changing behavior can be overwhelming.

The Development FIRST framework was created by Hicks and Peterson (1995) and it is a great way to approach any kind of change you want to make at work. It includes the following steps:

Focus on priorities.

Implement something every day.

Reflect on what happens.

Seek feedback and support.

Transfer learning into next steps.

Steps 1-3 are inward looking steps in the process, while steps 4-5 are external or outward.Regardless of what your goal is, using this sequence of steps as a guide can help you to “put one foot in front of the other” as you move forward.

Distraction from Multitasking

Multitasking has been widely recognized as an important skill in today’s fast paced and competitive business environment. By completing multiple tasks simultaneously, the idea is that one can do more with less time and in the process withstand the multiple interruptions and pressures of the modern workplace.

However, new research indicates that multitasking not only results in the loss of time, but it reduces our overall effectiveness and the accuracy of our work. It turns out that the busyness associated with switching back and forth between tasks reduces the valuable self-talk and mental processing time we actually need to make good decisions. Rather than saving us time and money, multitasking can represent as much as a 40% reduction in our overall productivity. That’s not very efficient.

While channel surfing, reading a magazine and eating a snack on the couch at home is harmless, reducing your productivity at work by 40% could leave you out of a job. The next time you’re tempted to email, voicemail and rehearse a presentation all at once, think about the benefit of focusing on each task separately until they’re complete. It’s about going slow to go fast.